My at work vacation is over

The boss is back from Europe. Perhaps I haven't been around lawyers long enough,* but am I wrong in thinking it's a bit strange for someone to go straight to work after an eight hour flight? Ben Waterman is that type of guy, a lawyer. His plane landed some time around 12 PM, and at 2:40 he walked into the suite, luggage in hand, just in time to receive a fax from the American Clerical Service that certain court papers he filed were rejected. He also interrupted my conversation with Juan, who was railing against the socialists in Spain who pay people $300 a month for housing. (Oh what horror!)**

I had hoped for a final day of peace.

Wouldn't the old fool need to rest a bit, perhaps readjust to NY time? Why was Ben carrying his luggage? Didn't he take the trip with his wife? He didn't even take her home and drop off his own things? Why didn't his wife take his stuff?

Am I just thinking from a normal person's perspective? Maybe the office is Ben's home, and his suite mates are his family. His wife lives in the house, and he visits on weekends. Maybe that is work for him.


* This can only be a good thing. Being in contact with lawyers comes in two ways: Either you're in trouble and need a lawyer, or you are a lawyer or work for one. Neither is a good prospect. What about having lawyer friends or family members? you ask. Well, you wouldn't be much in contact with them, for lawyers don't have friends that aren't lawyers, and family members rarely see them.

** If there's a way to obtain Spanish citizenship or citizenship in a European Union state, please let me know, because I'd love to move to Spain.

What is a lawyer?

During my interview with Ben, he said that he favors the havenots of the world, and practices law only to travel. From what I've seen, however, all his out of work activities involve the practice of law. For example, when he goes to lunch, it is either with some other lawyer or to some law school lecture. He's on several Bar committees, and participates in some sort of Bar theater project, which produces plays starring lawyers. Ben usually plays the part of a lawyer. The only acting that takes place, I imagine, is that Ben appears competent. He's also a member of a book club, another bar group. I don't know how often he comes home, but I don't think he even recognizes his wife's voice. She calls him sometimes, saying, "Hi Ben, this is your wife, Veronica." I wonder, would he know it's her if she didn't say it was?

Ben does like to travel--to far off, remote places of the world. On his bookshelves there are pictures of him with his family in various settings--some sort of jungle, desert, huge mountains, etc. My interest in the pictures, besides a juvenile circus sideshow fascination with ugliness, is how the photographs are composed. Ben and his family crouch or stand in front of an assembly of the region's indigenous people slightly in the background, wearing traditional or tribal garb, or nothing at all. It's as though Ben's at the zoo or the Natural Museum of History, with these people behind as an exhibit.

I don't know if these people are haves or havenots, if they're paid to pose or do so willingly, but it's extremely insulting. The worst part, for me anyway, is that Ben's probably not even aware of it. That is, if the pose were done on purpose, with Ben trying to show that he and his family are better than the natives, that the natives are just background scenery on his glorious adventure, it would certainly be offensive but not that bad. It would say Ben's audacious and full of himself. Hiring a photographer to go on trips with him would add a touch of class.

My problem is that Ben is completely oblivious to it. His denigration of these people is entirely by accident. An educated person with absolutely no sense of decency. That is a lawyer. People hate lawyers, a known fact. This is part of the reason. While being a blood-sucking leech has something to do with it, it's the indifference, the sheer obliviousness of doing something terrible that really makes one abhor lawyers. Here is another trait of the ugly American. No coincidence, I think, that the US is the most litigious country.

And the havenots? I've already mentioned the Ramierezes. Other examples and complaints to follow soon.